I was traveling in a bus to a remote village and there was no proper road for private vehicles to go. Hence, people generally use public transport. It was dry and desert, in between huge trees. The vehicle got repaired and it took almost one hour. Meanwhile we are all asked to rest under a few trees. A thought about life. These moments always bring awesome time to recollect our memories coz that is the only thing in your hand to kill time.
There are generally three lives, the first is being a child. We are taken care of by the world and we watch and learn the behaviour of our parents and relatives. Most of the activity looks mysteries to us. Especially when you see people cycling whether they are magicians to ride with balance. Seeing Aeroplane whether it takes people to heaven. One child asked about the ATM whether it is created to give money to Poor. This stage we are the family we never were alone, there is no chance of displaying individuality. Whether you’re a child or an adult staying inside home you don’t practice individuality and we are part of the collective..
The second one is schooling. We always asked to stand as an individual while pursuing education. We are allowed to develop our own ego. The ego is a feeling of ‘I’ in us. The society wanted to compete with others and we always live like an ‘I’ in school and college. The beauty is we forget our family while in school. Even an abused child is given a hope that if you study well and you will be given wings to fly to any world to escape from abuse. The schooling helps most of the children to be happy from the family. I have seen students laugh loudly in the classroom and are the most depressed in nature. Hence school helps us to live happily and away from the troubled home.
The Third is the office. Here we always stand as a bachelor, whether unmarried or married. You never carry your family to the office hence you’re a bachelor. Society created a job where you can be away from the family to breathe you. Smart people who are married into troubled families breathe as a bachelor in office. I have seen most divorced or single women dressed like a teenage girl while going to the office. They are smart women who never take their family problem to office, they just behave like an unmarried female in office and at the same time they never take office problems to home. Hence, the office is an outlet to breathe as they are as single.
If you want to know the secret of happiness. Then do not carry your family problem to office, office problem to home. I definitely say, you’re the one who understands the pattern of living inside the world.
When you’re in depression, the best way is to get into either college or Job coz you’re considered single inside that environment.